ClubFEM® members agree to abide by the following ClubFEM® protocol at parties and events:

ClubFEM® members agree to be in the FemDomme and male submissive roles exclusively at ClubFEM® parties and events.

Switches must remain in the designated head space for the duration of the party.

There is no requirement for Dommes or subs to engage in BDSM play (scenes). Although some may choose to play, many people attend parties to socialize and learn techniques by watching others.

Males are to behave respectfully to all Females at all times.

All ClubFEM® slaves are expected to bring an attitude of servitude and submissiveness and should be willing to serve refreshments and treat the Women respectfully. Slaves are not obligated to engage in any form of play without consent and negotiation.

Males are to address Females as Miss and their designated name by that Female. Example Miss E or Head Mistress E.

ClubFEM®is strictly a social organization and there will be no promotion of any domination for profit businesses.

Dominant attire for Females may include dressy, leather, latex, vinyl, modest lingerie and/or bossy business suits. No nudity by Females unless you are receiving a massage.

Although males are usually expected to appear semi nude in a slave collar and a thong, bikini style or jock at ClubFEM® parties, other dressier submissive fetish or cross-dressed outfits are also encouraged, but must also include the required slave collar. If you do not have a collar, the club has house collars for borrowing. Males are NOT to wear boxers, boxer briefs, or standard underwear(tighty whitey style). 

A leash, wrist and ankle cuffs are optional.

Females are to refrain from touching or commanding a collared slave without his Owners permission.

Males who wish to be available to any Domme for servitude or BDSM play scenes will wear a red ribbon on their collar. However, wearing a red ribbon does not obligate a slave to engage in play nor does it negate the need to negotiate a scene.

Males will receive an email from the Head Mistress with group instructions the day of party.